If the choice is given to be happy or unhappy what will b the choice of human beings? Happiness, for sure, then why still 9 out of 10 adults are unhappy today? Is it a choice made by us? Or is it forced upon us? If we try to find an answer, I am sure we know definitely that it is not our choice. Why then we are unhappy or at least not happy? It is a question everybody is looking for an answer everyday. The answer is simple we are unhappy by choice. I do agree sometime social obligations and circumstances make us feel us unhappy but still it is our choice to allow them to get over us.
I have noted kids are happy though the adults try their best to see them unhappy by forcing so much on them in the name of competing, social standing, knowledge, material acquisitions etc. etc. why kids look happy because they still need to learn being unhappy, what we have learned and keep on trying to pass on to them. We need to understand that we are born happy and this is our nature. If we refuse to be unhappy, by default we are happy. May be that is the reason Christ said person who is like a child will come to heaven, it does not mean kids will come to heaven rather he means one who is like children will have a right to heaven. There are reasons, excuses and circumstances, which make us feel unhappy about. Fid it out, be awake to happening around and within refuse to accept negativity and live in bliss what we are always meant to be. How to counter the reason and circumstances is an individual effort based upon each individual, I would like to request suggestions, experiences and ways to counter unhappiness to which am sure there is a lot for our seekers to offer to young n old, Masters n seekers